I barely saw Sydney yesterday because she ended up working late. Then today she left town with her boyfriend for a long weekend. We messaged some about work, but relatively nothing relationship-wise.
She hates her job. She has a shitty boss. It’s pretty clear she will be leaving the company we both work for soon. I seriously can’t make this stuff up. Meredith left after I helped her with her resume, and now I’m helping Sydney with her resume. It’s completely crazy. I told Sydney about the odd similarity, and she actually got a little jealous. Cute. Either way it appears the problem of dealing with her in a work environment is taking care of itself.
Also I’ve told her that what we have is not working for me. I need more of her if this is to work. She frankly said this is working for her, and she doesn’t want to cross certain boundaries. She also isn’t comfortable texting much either. I need one or the other. Anyway I think she is chalking it all up to “whining” on my part. I could tell she was getting a little annoyed with me at one point, but she also worked like a twelve hour day. She is letting that stress fall on me because I’m being honest with what is and is not working.
This long weekend will be interesting. I’m going to just ignore her. I have a distinct feeling she will not message me the entire weekend. That will be it then. Affair over. Frankly it’s already over I’m just trying to let it down gently. There really isn’t a need to be a dick about it, and until I no longer have to work with her I need civility.