Marriage Counseling

A very short update today. We had an intense marriage counseling session last night. It was good. It was scary. It was emotional. 

We ended up focusing on D/S and Power Exchange dynamic. Because it is clearly an area we do not communicate well. The counselor helped my Wife to actually listen, and also helped me to clarify in ways that will hopefully make sense. Also it was the first time I think she really understood that it’s not really about sex. There is no list of activities. It’s a mindset. 

Although I think we both mostly acknowledged it is not something my wife is interested in she does want to learn more first. My homework is to find ONE or TWO resources to share with my wife to help her learn about Power Exchange relationships in more concrete terms. The problem is I want to send her a hundred links because that’s how I find information. I’m kind of freaking out thinking about only sending one or two sources. They have to be really good. I’m thinking blogs or books. But maybe a podcast too. Any help is appreciated!

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4 thoughts on “Marriage Counseling

  1. I just read a book by a former Switch called: The Scarlett Letters: My Secret Year of Men in an L.A Dungeon, by Jenny Nordbak.
    In it, she talks about the exchange between her and her then boyfriend in the D/S Department. And also exploring with each other.
    I got mine at Barnes & Noble.
    Worth checking out 🙂

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  2. I love the blog 3 is right – good posts that really resonate with me as someone who identifies with as pretty vanilla, I do relate to enjoying submissive tendencies as a way of relaxing and being cared for. I think what Sugar from 3 is right writes about explains things well as someone who never understood bdsm previously.

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